Partner problems help?

ok well long story but to cut it short hes a virgin....i am not we waited too have and on two seperate occasions and lots of trys he couldnt maintain his errection.......i tried not to make a big deal of it as i new this would make it worse....on saturday night he brought it up again about how **** it was....i was trying to tell him to think positive (he has an app with doctor on monday) that it was only his second time and to stop giving himself a hard time....he started going on a long windin speech about how hes maybe just not into , hes not a ual person.......then he said something about being bored of (how can he be if he hasnt tried it) he was then going on about he was **** scared about that he didnt want to dissopoint me and felt pressured to perform good and that he would have to keep me happy......that he was going to loose me as as i wouldnt want a sexless relationship? ever negative text he sent i tried to send him a nice text to reure him he just kept pushing it and i was getting upset especially the bored text and having sex to keep me happy.......from day one hes always said he wants me to be his first how stunning i am how he loves me wants spend life with me......every time we together hes always so touchy feely always has hard on and what he wants to do with me......i was so confussed last night and thought he was giving me the brush off in a round about way i said maybe we arent meant to be thens and some of the stuff hes said tonight will stick in my head forever now and would find it hard to have sexual relationship......he basically sent me a nice text and said hes going to die a virgin......today i text and called him asking if he was ok and no answer. ...... what do i do help please